My name is Manny, and I am a nice guy. I’m sure you all have heard the famous expression before, “Nice Guys Finish Last”. Unfortunately, there is some truth to this expression.
I’d like to explain why and how it’s possible to still be “nice” and be successful with women. Change comes with developing habits that progressively get you out of your comfort zone.
IF you are yearning to get out of your comfort zone, but still are afraid to take action, I can totally relate to you. Continue to read further about my story.
I grew up in a loving and caring family, but with extremely low levels of self-esteem and confidence, and high levels of social anxiety. This led me to engage in constant approval-seeking behavior, resulting in me being “friend zoned” by EVERY WOMAN I spoke to, the moment I opened my mouth. I was ridiculed by peers in high school and college and mocked by coworkers when I started working at a corporate company. They all liked me because I was nice, caring, and giving. However, I was maddened by their lack of respect and constant ridicule towards me. I would constantly try too hard to prove that their condescending opinions of me were wrong which resulted in more mockery.
I always felt that happiness would entail finding someone to connect with – someone that could provide me with a more cogent understanding of who I was. As a result of trying to seek confidence through others’ opinions and thoughts, I wound up feeling disconnected from who I truly was as an individual. I always made it a point to be nice to people, whether they be friends, women, etc., and I strove to do my best to make everybody feel comfortable in my presence. As a result, I wound up spending much time and psychological energy worrying about other people’s problems. I just wanted to be liked — haunted by fears of not being good enough, I worried incessantly about what others thought about me. This left me feeling empty and emotionally drained.
What’s more, I felt like I was an utter failure with women and people in general, and I did not see any light at the end of the tunnel.
I hit a breaking point and decided that I’d had enough. I was sick of constantly being ridiculed, manipulated and devalued by friends and peers. I had been friend zoned by every woman I’d ever met throughout my entire life. There was a beast inside of me yearning to be unleashed. I felt like I stood in front of the doorway that led to a new, more confident “me”. Only problem was, that door was locked, and I didn’t have the key….YET.
I underwent a life-changing journey that involved finding and learning game, surrounding myself with great people that had a genuine interest in helping me to improve myself, learning NLP, understanding social intelligence and the way the mind works, discovering and dissecting the mindset of the so-called “nice guy”, and learning why he is friend-zoned by women, manipulated by assholes, suffers from low confidence and self-esteem, and ultimately finishes last. These changes and tools that I acquired has given me Social FREEDOM which creates an abundant lifestyle in going after what I want, when I want.
I lived with a professional dating coach, known as Justin Wayne for over 2 years and now I am a professional dating coach for Justin Wayne Dating and creator of the Nice Guys With an Edge Program. The biggest aspect of learning how to be successful with women is understanding how your mind’s psychology works. Most men are brainwashed in this society and believe in the myth of “HOPE”. I believe in ABUNDANCE and prefer taking action in order to get the result, but you must be willing to face your fears and anxieties.
I created this website to show the so-called “nice guy” that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. This site includes articles, videos, products, e-books, courses, podcasts, and other frequent updates. You will learn HOW and WHY society has given women more choice when it comes to dating. I constantly see men who behave just the way I used to – they put themselves down, value others more than themselves, feel like they’re worth nothing, and just sit around hoping against hope that things will change. I’m tired of this mindset, and I hope you are, too. It’s time to TAKE ACTION and live quality life you desire.
This site is dedicated to prove that nice guys can finish first!